Router Blocking Connections, help!!

Hello... I got a new router recently and I find that there are settings inside that's blocking my connections. The problem is not the port forwarding, I have that established and I can both connect to remote and the light is green, but the peer connections are now mostly yellow frown faces.

The problem is this router seems to have most things disabled to begin with (it comes from the internet provider which default to having restrictions in place) and I don't have the tech savvy to know what I need to enable for this to work.

Below is everything i can find on the router. I don't know what is useful and what isn't... please help???


This is the router's basic user manual...
http://www.starnetuc.com/en/upload/upimg/20130624111651.pdf


Aside from these, options in the admin account also has...

Network > LAN > advanced configurations

802.1d Spanning Tree > Disable
IGMP Proxy > Disable
UPNP > Enable
Router Advertisement > Disable
PPPoE Relay > Enable
DNS Proxy > Disable


Other > VPN > VPN Pass Through

L2TP Passthrough > Disable
IPSec Passthrough > Disable
PPTP Passthrough > Disable
H323 Passthrough > Disable
SIP Passthrough > Disable
RTSP Passthrough > Disable
FTP Passthrough > Disable